I don't understand this. Why's the Goddesses candle flame flickering and trembling like crazy everytime I kindle it? The God's flame is all calm. What's she tryin to tell me? And this happens every single time, I do this nearly daily 'cause I meditate. I said that this makes me confused and that I'm don't quite understand, but I'd be ready to follow her guidance in this - whatever it is - that she wants.